What helps you to make your decisions when you are super stressed out and having a rough time when making really large life changing decisions?

Lately I have been having a lot of rather large decisions and always rely on music (particularly one band;  Cancer Bats) 

For instance I am currently living in Toronto but no longer wish to live here.  My parents want me to move home.  My boss offered me to move down to the states.

Id like to just travel around, and I technically could.  But I already do for work and that is enough for me for now.

I was also thinking of school, but I don't have the time with work/traveling.  As well I don't really hae the patience to attend class for the next 2-3 years.

Im not quite sure what I am going to do, I just want to continue working and helping people whenever I can.  I don't really care where I live, as long as I am happy.